Creativity | Make it Blossom

by debbie on April 3, 2010

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If creativity is in our soul, how do we encourage ourselves and others to use their creativity? Last week I wrote a post on creativity and the inner critic. I talked about how our inner critic may have played a role in shutting down our creativity.

For years I never considered myself creative. I’m a totally left brain thinker. And in my family, you were rewarded for your intelligence. Oh, they oooo’d and aaaahh’d over my kindergarten drawings. But when it came time to choose classes in high school, they never said, “Why don’t you take another art class?”

And once I got out into the real world, there were too many “serious’ things to do other fill my creative soul. That changed when I had my children. As they moved beyond the infant stage, I started to realize I didn’t know who I was. I certainly was a mom and a wife, but what else?

Creativity saved the day and I didn’t even realize it til years later.

I started gardening. So now I was a mom, a wife, and a gardener. But it was the act of creation that filled my soul. And I didn’t even recognize it at the time.

People would say, “Oh you’re so talented. Look at your beautiful garden.” But I would dismiss it and say, “Oh, I just bought the plants and planted them. They did all the work.”

How wrong I was.

I slowly started to realize that the gardening saved me. It gave me a creative outlet that filled my soul.

So let’s talk about ways of encouraging your creative genius.

Awareness

Well, the first thing is awareness. Be aware of how you are already creative. The obvious places to check is your hobbies. When I’m trying to discover something about myself, I always state an intention. Out loud. “I am noticing the ways I am creative. It’s easy for me to see the ways I am creative.”

Did you say it?

Now if you don’t have any hobbies, maybe you’re creative at work, or in your relaxation. By noticing how we are creative, we will create more opportunities to be creative.

Non-judgment

Another challenge to embracing your creative side is judging whatever creative outlet you choose. “Oh, I just plant the plants.” Or “I just follow a recipe”, or “I just bought the furniture and threw everything together.”

How about just noticing our creativity and when we receive a compliment, just saying thank you.

Do it Badly

And sometimes we attempt something creative and it doesn’t turn out the way we expect it. Give yourself permission to do it badly. Sometimes I sit down and say, “Now I’m going to create some bad art.” It’s wonderfully freeing.

Schedule It

And lastly, make time for your creativity. You owe it to your soul.

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Keith Wilcox April 5, 2010 at 1:40 pm

I found my peaceful/creative side when I had kids. I was a martial arts instructor before kids and for the first two years. But, since I closed the academy and started looking for other creative outlets I’ve found a passion for zen gardens and tea which I never had before. Like you I used to spend a lot of time working on my logical side. It’s still valuable to me, but my creative side is getting much more satisfying use these days which never happened in school . It makes me wonder if people like us are as common as I suspect and if it’s the case, perhaps schools need to do a better job encouraging art.
.-= Keith Wilcox´s last blog ..The Prom: I Don’t think I Missed Much =-.

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debbie April 5, 2010 at 1:58 pm

I don’t think there are many people like us. But surely schools should do a better job of encouraging art. I would have felt more balanced in my life. Not that I ever really felt unhappy, but I think I would have found more joy if I had been encouraged to use my right brain more.

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Paul Zelizer
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June 3, 2011 at 11:08 am

Hi Debbie,

Great post! I especially love your suggestion about “doing it badly”. I’ve found perfectionism to be one of my greatest creativity killers. Giving myself permission to not be perfect has released a way of inspiration and creativity.

Thanks!

Paul
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debbie June 5, 2011 at 9:13 pm

Hi Paul,

Me too. When I first had a facilitator that said that we were going to make bad art… you would be amazed at the beautiful results! Thanks for commenting on an older post!

One Love,
Debbie

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Gregg Camp from monterey homes for sale August 24, 2011 at 3:18 am

I highly believe that everyone is creative. They’re not just aware of it. Creativity comes in many ways. You just have to discover what it is. Give time to yourself and explore new things. You’ll be surprised that you’re creative in that particular field. Cheers!

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